You must know the reason why she is silent. You must trace her weakest spots. You must write to her. You must remind her that you are there. You must know how long it takes for her to give up. You must be there to hold her when she is about to.
You must love her because many have tried and failed. And she wants to know that she is worthy to be loved, that she is worthy to be kept.And, this is how you keep her.
|—||Junot Diaz- This is How you Lose Her (via theworldismyplayground001)|
I know this sounds selfish of me. But I love seeing all the girls who made fun of me in high school now. Because I’m in such a happy place and so successful. And they are still the same trashy girls who don’t have any success…
I know I have no place to judge or belittle. But those girls made my life a living hell… I would cry myself to sleep for 4 years. And now I’m so strong. They all look stupid now…because I exceeded all their expectations. AND built myself into a woman that they will never be. Why? Because I used their hurtful words as motivation.
I swear I have the most amazing best friend. We do the craziest shit & just don’t care who judges lol. 16 years of knowing each other & we still make the craziest memories.
|—||Unknown (via davidphaam)|